This jimcarrel guy initiated the hostility with his pointed remarks. You'll notice that there was nothing aggressive about my original post. I realize that you guys are in no way obliged to be here helping, and I am grateful for the help. I am not grateful for the negativity, however.
Of course I haven't read all 182 pages, but I did read through many of them and the search turned up nothing.
Your suggestions, while appreciated, may not be specific enough for me to grasp (but I'll see what I can do)
So I'll assume that there just isn't a practical solution for this issue at this point time.
Saying that search is your friend is not in any way, shape or form, hostile.
Jim has been extremely helpful in answering the same questions over and over in here because nobody (except those of us trying to provide support) use the search feature.
At this point in this topic (after 180+ pages) every question you may think about asking has already been asked and answered by myself for the number of other people who are kind enough to provide support in here.
Furthermore, in agreement with mej284, it's very difficult to provide support to somebody that calls another person, who is trying to be helpful, a donkey.
Even if that person wasn't being helpful, why would you say that? that's very very bad etiquette (forum or in-person).