Thanks for the input... it helped.
Everything is set back to normal, one founder one admin no mods. It seems like everything is ok.
There was no NDA or contracts or anything but handshake and a thank you for helping. Lesson learned, learn to do it yourself.
Ok one last maybe redundant question... If someone uses that admin password/login to get in and they were NOT made an admin to begin with (IE, just some random member who got their hands on a login/password for an admin/founder account) and uses it to get in and change settings ect... is that a crime?
Not that anyone is going to waste time and money to pursue it but.... is it a crime For random member X to use an admin password they found/was given thru the grapevine to log in as an admin and fiddle around? Half the group says that case is a hacking, the other half says no thats just our tough luck.
My thinking is, if we let a lose active password float around, thats our fault for not locking the doors. Again.. I could be wrong.
You guys were a lot of help, thank you so much!