azdolfan, I just visited your site and the confirmation image is showing for me as a guest (it does not display if so set in the ACP contact settings for registered users). I see no screen captures in your post.
My my sincerest apologies for wasting your time. I went through those settings many times, yet still thought I had it to show for both registered users and guests. Blind and working on a computer 16 hrs straight. It's all good now!
Concerning sending a PM and Email, no this is not possible. You could have a forum post made but it is not possible to send both an Email and a PM.
That's an idea! I didn't think about if I had it go to a forum post that when you subscribe to it, you get emailed so both online and email will be covered. The only thing I worry is customers having logging in or registering problems and posting their credentials. Or the possible rare complaint! My concern with just PM is that I have 8 different animal forums and am not online each of them everyday so an email would be great to notify a new PM is there. And for quicker response! Actually, I think phpbb should have that feature because at times I have had PM on their boards and didn't know until I logged on. Maybe I'll make a hidden forum so it's covered both ways. Anyway, thanks you gave me ideas.
Oh and thanks so much for pointing out my out of date template style. I was always updating phpbb versions right away, but never even know about the style. Found on here, a lot of other people are not aware of this as well. Too bad install notes don't warn people that didn't know like me. But you pointed out a nightmare for me (with so many forums and my version went all the way back to 3.0), but it turned into the best thing that happened for me when I found a new style that is updated for me each time and they even update mods for us to integrate with their style. Life is much easier now! Thanks again and thanks for a great mod